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For the past, say, decade of my life, the idea of sex clubs has tantalized my brain. Whether it was watching parts of Eyes Wide Shut when my mom thought I was asleep, or devouring every piece of Fifty Shades like the basic betch I am, something about kinky sex has always fascinated me. And the most interesting kink of all was the sex club. Why did I go, then?
I went to a sex club – and here’s what happened
Picture: iStock Source:Supplied. Which is why I was surprised to find myself, a few weeks ago, having sex with my husband while a group of strangers watched. On a whim, we decided to check it out.
For more stories like this, go to bodyandsoul. It felt like less pressure to visit at along with a bunch of other first-timers. For us, we decided if we felt like it, we would be game to have sex in front of others.
We decided against swinging on our very first visit. Picture: iStock Source:istock. What were we getting ourselves into? Several screens showed various porn movies, there was a stripper pole in the middle of the room, and the bartender was in fishnets and underwear.
Several other couples were hanging around the bar, and within moments, a woman was bent over and being spanked. It was more humorous than sexy, and everyone seemed to be trying really hard to look natural and comfortable. As we finished our drinks, a dancer entered and cleared the room to perform a striptease on the pole.
We grabbed some drinks and settled in. Several open yet separate rooms had various beds and couches scattered about, and most were occupied with couples having sex or several people tangled up in each other. Props like whips and paddles decorated the rooms, and there were attachments against some walls to tie someone up with.
Reality: awkward is as awkward does
My partner and I saw a small, empty room containing one small bed and looked at each other and shrugged. I jumped on top, and during the time were we in there, a steady stream of people approached to try and or just watch. My husband and I picked a bed and I jumped on top. After we got dressed and left, we agreed we were glad we went and camebut did it more for a good story than it being something either of us were really into. This article originally appeared on bodyandsoul.
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