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Online dating as a lesbian, for the most part, still involves having to deal with straight people. The heteronormative weirdness got so alienating that lesbians began turning to TikTok as a means of meeting other single women seeking women sites — turns out, it's a damn good matchmaker. But it's unrealistic to expect a social media app to work like a dating app for everyone. It's hard women seeking women sites some of us to comprehend, but not everyone spends every free minute on TikTok. Lesbians who have exhausted their local romantic options are still going to want to see who else is out there.

Up until recently, some of the nation has acted as though lesbians didn't exist outside of porn and Ellen DeGeneres, and acted as if girls only turn to dating women if they had a bad experience with a man. When it comes to mainstream dating apps that are open to everyone, these tone-deaf assumptions still find a way to rain on the lesbian online dating experience. If it's not a man being slipped into your feed when you specifically marked that you're searching for women, it's matching with a woman just to be hit with the "My boyfriend and I are looking for a threesome.

Lesbian tinder includes 1. Girls who are just wanting friends 2. Ppl you went to high school w who want a threesome 3. Men who somehow got in.

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There's just one problem: The apps where the straights are the target are still where most of the queer users are, too. Though women-only apps like HER are gaining traction fast, they can still be a bit of a ghost town or a scammer's paradise.

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You just have to decide whether you can deal with the quirks of Tinder and have more options to swipe through, women seeking women sites if you're fine with coming across the same profile three times as long as it's not a man. A decent of dating sites and apps specifically for lesbians do exist, but most face the same issues: They're either made to sexualize lesbians and aren't really for genuine connection at all, or it's way too easy for guys to up and pretend to be women.

Creeps are drawn to porn-y names like Pink Flirt, so if you're wondering why we left most of the so-called female only apps out, that's why. We're using cookies to improve your experience. Find out more. Like Follow. Best overall.

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Image: HER. The Good. HER HER is the award-winning mix of dating and social media that lets you meet girls you know are girls. Price: Free One month of Premium: Apps like Tinder women seeking women sites Bumble are technically for all orientations, but they'll be damned if they don't sneak some male profiles into your feed even if you've specified the opposite.

Given the existence of Grindr and Scruff, the need for an online dating arena specifically for queer women was clear — thus, HER. As the user base of over four million grows, HER could widen your dating pool beyond the queer women you already know. InHER revamped its profiles to let users get more creative in like gender, sexuality, pronouns, diet preferences like veganismand star s, as well as a "What does this mean? The traditional text bio is where you can flex your sense of humor or describe what kind of relationship you're seeking.

ing niche groups like "newly out" or "travelers" can also connect you with people using the app for similar reasons. Aside from coupling up, a lot of HER regulars are looking to make friends or scope out the queer community in a new town. Switching over to the community feed opens the door to virtual hangouts with self-curated groups for queer women of color or interests like the new lesbian films that mainstream Twitter will probably ignore. Image: OKcupid. OkCupid Queer users are naturally drawn to OKC's inclusivity and knowledge that politics play a part in meshing romantically.

OkCupid's slogan women seeking women sites "Dating deserves better," and they're damn right — especially for queer and non-binary people. The nearly year-old dating site has shed the heteronormativity skin that still somewhat plagues eharmony and Match.

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It's hip and well-informed, while maintaining a more serious atmosphere than Tinder. OkCupid consistently le the charge of inclusivity in online dating. In years before any other dating site even had the thoughtOkCupid began offering 22 gender and 13 orientation choices. Fast forward towhen all users can choose their pronouns. The dedication to inclusivity and social justice is also clear with the introduction of Black Lives Matter and voter profile badges. OkCupid's rede goes past enlisting a clearly- millennial graphic deer. For young, left-leaning singles, personal politics aren't just a "well if we agree, it's great" thing when looking for a partner.

Users can weed out people they'd hate by answering deal-breakers about things like keeping a gun in women seeking women sites house or requiring children to be vaccinated.

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OkCupid's connections are strengthened by an algorithm that picks matches based on how similarly both parties answered questions during -up yes, there are questions about communication and sappy relationship things as well as political views. A compatibility score plus details on where you disagreed are helpful padding when it comes to evaluating what differences are make-or-breaks. More serious candidates than Tinder. Image: hinge.

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Hinge The go-to app for millennials works to be a quality space for its queer users and is a women seeking women sites more thoughtful than swiping apps. Young people looking to at least go on a few dates with the same person instead of beelining for a friends with benefits situation was a blind spot for swiping apps — until Hinge blew up. The premise and user base might be in the Tinder and Bumble realm, but these three aren't interchangeable. Hinge's unique profile criteria and algorithm based on that criteria set matches up for real-life potential.

Despite the fact that we're actively seeking out new dating apps and feel a rush every time a cute contender swipes right back, no one looking for something serious wants to be on these. That idea fueled Hinge's rebrand to "the dating app deed to be deleted. Instead of swiping, connections are made by liking or commenting on another person's answers. Prompts range from "Two truths and a lie" to "Does hiking on a Sunday morning seem viable to you too?

Paying for Hinge Preferred also lets you filter by political women seeking women sites. Unlike Tinder and Bumble, which seem to have a broken gaydar, Hinge sees far less reports of men popping up in your feed uninvited.

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Hinge users also experience more genuine queer people and less unicorn hunting on the app compared to the other big players. Best for lots of options. Image: tinder. Tinder is often bashed for its high level of creepy users and creepy messages — and rightfully so. But given its sheer s of active users including queer onesyou know we couldn't leave it off the list. Not many people can say that they don't know a single person in a relationship where the couple met on Tinder.

Countless success stories are told on Reddit when someone asks about where to meet other lesbians. You know the drill: Add pictures, set an age range, and fill out a bio as seriously or not as you want. While the matching isn't exactly strategic, it's definitely the app that'll help most women seeking women sites scoping out the most lesbians in the doable vicinity. Which is clutch, because one of the main lesbian complaints is that, um, there are none around. Tinder has a tendency to ignore filters here and there, though men obviously can't talk to anyone who doesn't swipe right.

Who can message you, though, are the girls you swipe right for who, surprise, aren't on Tinder to meet women romantically. Some are looking for friends, some are recruiting for a women seeking women sites for a threesome with their boyfriend — either way, you'll have to do some weeding.

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Best if you hate the typical dating app dynamic. Image: lex. Lex This newer space for women and non-binary users throws it back to the 80s with text-based and no selfies. Free version: Yes See Details. We love an app that cuts the bullshit. In this case, the bullshit includes cisgender straight men.

Lex short for Lexicon, formerly known as Personals is a seriously cool social app for queer, trans, gender non-conforming, two spirit, and non-binary people. The specific demographic positions Lex to offer a more peaceful experience than "everyone" apps like Tinder and Bumble, but the way it goes about introducing users as lovers or friends is what makes it extra special. A nod to '80s and '90s lesbian erotica magazines, Lex users meet by posting personal about what or who they're looking for, relationship-wise. Thecalled personals, are a chance for users to showcase their wit and be straightforward as hell.

Personals can get pretty horny, but it's all about the language — no photos, including selfies, are women seeking women sites. Users can link an Instagram if they want. The traditional swipe-and-match process?

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Lex doesn't know her. It operates similarly to Craigslist: If you see an ad that appeals to you, answer it. If you're over the tired dynamic of awkwardly testing the waters with a shy hottie you just matched with, you might appreciate how much backstory Lex supplies before a word is exchanged.

If someone's interested in starting a band or planning a protest rather than having sex, they can — and both of those have happened, founder Kell Rakowski told Allure.

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Most poly-friendly. Image: feeld. Lesbians aren't against using a dating app to find a threesome — they'd just prefer that the search doesn't involve pesky straight people. Feeld, the brainchild of a couple that knows non-hetero non-monogamy through personal experience, is a dating app for couples and singles to find threesomes, foursomes, or however many people you want.

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